if you grow with the kid from birth and watch that kid grow up your love should be more stronger than the mere fact that the kid is a jacket, much if the kid grew up to be someone you can be proud of. mi had a cousin that give a man a jacket and the man still marry her and grew the kid like his own daughter and you can look at the kid and know that it is not his, and he never throw it in her face.
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